When trying to make money online is just a waste of time
Some English marketer once said “You don’t get owt for nowt” and for anyone not from the North of England or who is not a follower of ‘Coronation Street’ (both of which include me incidentally), this term means: “You don’t get anything for nothing”.
When I began to find out how to make money on the net, I had no money, but like so many others out there, I was desperate to earn a buck. Unlike some however, I was not interested in ‘get rich quick’ schemes, just a way to make a living so that we could pay our bills.
But everywhere I looked, it seemed that I would be offered ‘the secret to making money online’… but only a small part of it. And, if I wanted ‘the whole secret’, I had to ‘click here’ to buy anything from an ebook to an expensive (’guaranteed to earn you mega bucks/get you thousands of backlinks/get you thousands of subscribers’) and probably useless marketing tool.
I saw immediately what these guys were doing (although I have to say that some of them did it very well), but had I wanted to, I couldn’t have clicked to ‘buy their secrets’ because I couldn’t afford them anyhow.
So I went backwards, back through the links that had taken me to these ‘unbeatable offers’ to the original publishers advertising those expensive tricks, and I found affililiate codes. So I said to myself, “why don’t you do the same? Just stick up an ad and if I write something too, then maybe I can make some money online?” (and remember here, I was desperate to earn some cash and I hadn’t found guys like Vic and Griz). So I signed up for a couple of scammers as an affiliate.
Big mistake.
Not only could I not make decent money selling those ’secrets’, but the most annoying thing about it all was finding my email box full to the brim with spam from these guys.
They were not content with having me trying to sell their products to unsuspecting punters, they wanted my money as well. It seems that they knew, that not only were their ’secrets’ worthless, but that most of their affiliates could not sell them either. And the only way to make money was to sell the products to their affiliates.
And it seems that this was ‘the big secret’ to their success.
At that point, I was still almost pennyless and none the wiser about the real secret to making money on the internet. Not only that, but I also didn’t feel good about selling ’secrets’ that I knew didn’t work. I wanted to make a living selling something that people actually wanted, rather than something that would do them no good.
So I went over to ‘adult’ and made real money selling things that people wanted to buy.
Luckily I hadn’t wasted that much time trying to promote the scammers, but it was still time which would have been better spent making money, rather than reading all the bucket loads of crap those guys constantly sent.
And this is also what angers me about the whole scamming business. Many people spend their hard earned cash on fake ‘get rich quick’ schemes, and even those who don’t still end up wasting their valuable time promoting stuff which will not make them the living that all their hard work deserves. And those who refuse to spend their money are simply told “you don’t get owt for nowt’.
By this time, many people will have realised either that they are investing in crap, or that they can’t make money this way despite loads of hard work. And that’s a vicious circle and the reason so many people simply give up.
And while all this is going on, the scammers sit on a beach somewhere and drink to their success, without a thought for all those poor sods working their asses off for nothing.
Which is why, when I came back over to mainstream after making money from adult, I knew I would find a whole sh*load of scams which didn’t work. But now I am finding even more than I ever discovered before.
It would be less frustrating just to concentrate on building my adult sites and carry on just collecting cash. But the reason I came back to mainstream too was because of another old but more useful saying which goes “don’t put all your eggs in one basket”.
But sometimes when I see all the wasted cash and wasted time being spent on mainstream scams, it is tempting just to close the door and head back from whence I came. Just to sell the stuff that makes me money and which brings a little joy into people’s lives, rather than poverty and disillusion.
And if you wonder why this has been just another entry about watching your back when you make money on the internet, well, that’s because I think it still needs to be said, over and over again, until enough people get the message.






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‘If it looks too good to be true it usually is’.
There’s big money in telling people how to make money but the promotors make their money by … telling people how to make money … and not by the idea they are promoting.
Mike.
Hi Mike,
‘If it looks too good to be true it usually is’
Shame, but true.
Trouble is, many people fail to realise that until it is too late.
Yep, that should definitely have been another saying to put in that piece.
Anyone who wants to ‘get rich quick’ without putting in the hard work deserves to get scammed, in my opinion. I don’t like what the scammers are doing, but when people want something for nothing then they’re asking for it.
I used to think like that too Kirsty (and on a day when I’m feeling ‘what the hell’ I still do), but when people get desperate they do not always use their common sense.
What really gets to me though, is that it is not only the person who has been taken for a mug who suffers, it is often their families too. And that’s why I hate scammers so much. They don’t only prey on idiots, they prey on innocents as well.
I don’t know where you are from but as a Yorkshireman I can vouch for the fact that you don’t get owt for nowt!
Idiots and innocents alike, you are right…..they always take money from people who can ill afford to lose it in the first place!!!
I’m a ‘Brit’ living in Spain and escaping the British weather!
But I was from the South East - London way. And sorry if I got a Yorkshire saying mixed up with Coronation Street, even a ’southerner’ should have known better than that!
Hahaha. Spain sounds like a better place to be than London. I’m down here now and the weather is 15 degress centigrade, grey and overcast. You know what it’s like I’m sure.
Maybe I can educate you on some more northern phrases if you want
It’s actually 27degrees c as I write this post and it’s cooling down a little! It’s going to get hotter too in the next few days (and probably remain that way for months). It’s something you get used to but it takes time…
I miss the bustle of London (I used to commute there to work each day), but not the grey skies.
As to northern phrases - I’m married to a yorkshireman and know just how cutting some of those phrases can be